It’s not about starting, it’s about impact. South Carolina women’s basketball team’s bench averages over 41 points a game while Duke’s bench produces over 31 points a game. These players focus on what they do with their minutes vs whether they start or not- no wonder these are 2 of the top teams in the nation.
In today’s world, athletes and parents often focus too much on starting. Shift your focus from starting/playing time to making an impact during the time you get.